I'm realizing that for my busy days I want to focus on personal growth until I'm actually there. I will worry about what to do after I get there because I already see the personal incentives for myself. I will have the confidence to live on my own with a very nice home and a lot of free time on my hands to go out and find a single girl who is my ideal type to date.
I'll just go for adopting kids then since I'm pretty old if the woman I decide to marry is too old for it by then. I think having one actual child and then adopting a few kids around the same age should be good enough to create a happy family. I don't mind raising other people's kids to be honest.