From doing a little google searching on how a man can be sexually attractive to ladies, I learned that guys need to project masculinity and confidence while being able to flirt effectively with the lady they are interested in. The problem with getting girls is that some of these lovely ladies might already be committed to a relationship. I read today in the morning about how a famous actress thought it was creepy being around this one celebrity who liked her. He said let's be friends and then later he said they dated for a short period, and I guess it became so awkward for her after that. They also had a fifteen year gap and she just turned 18 so yeah that does sound pretty weird to me even though I want to claim age is just a number.
I think ladies find a guy to be creepy if he has a dating interest in her and keeps on insisting while she clearly has other issues to work on going on with her life and isn't in the mood for reciprocating it. I think every single, straight guy out there really should take some time out to understand the lady's faults and not take it too personal if it doesn't work out and move on to someone better for him. I can flat out say that I had past problems with some paranoid people and it is annoying and frustrating because I still want to be friends with them. I don't want to make them feel embarrassed by talking about what they did truthfully with others from having these crazy feelings about them, but I do want to defend my own personal honor. There are way better people out there than trying to win the hearts of selfish and terrified souls, but I'm so crazy and weird about just being friends.
I think manliness is basically attractive in the sense that it's about possessing the strength to reach success. I want to enjoy a really fun sex life in a marriage and at least twice as better than the fantasies porno videos can depict. I don't think it's such a tall order to be honest, but I want to get there while staying a virgin. It's really hard to stay sexually pure and so easy to buy sex. In a way, I think it's so manly to stay in control and reach success which is obtaining a goal for personal happiness. I think it's common to possess personal feelings of how things are so hard, tantalizing, or boring while striving after something and then wanting to be lazy about it in the end. This is really anti-productive and not inducing to success. I guess manliness in a sense is about knowing what you want to be happy and then being able to put up with everything that is contrary and still obtaining it. This in a sense builds a lot of personal confidence. Whether it's obtained for evil or good purposes, it's still attractive to a lot of straight ladies.