Tuesday, May 19, 2015

Attracting a Woman

Hahaha, you came to the wrong place to find that out. I'm just kidding. On the contrary to my best friend who is pretty dumb in this area about women, he's always talking about how the girls smile at him when he talks and laughs and then he interprets that to be a sign of romance.

Man, that's stupid! It's just a common thing to interact and have girls laugh at you from left to right. It might make her more comfortable and give you room to have a relationship, but that's not even getting to first base either. You have to ask her out, and my buddy can't even do that to any girl he likes. He has a stupid way of thinking that can't make him let go of his ideal qualities of a woman that are like way out of the universe.

He also believes that women want materialistic things. This turns out to not really be that true for the majority of women. Maybe the women he's thinking about are crazy and had a lasting impact on him, but he's just dumb in this area and refusing to see that for himself. The woman is mainly interested in happy times with her man, which is pretty easy to figure out, but how?

From the get-go, it's about meeting the right person and just naturally connecting. Okay, it's going to take some effort to forgive incidents and then move on because no one is perfect. In a nutshell, it's about providing the woman with her needs of being loved and given affection. If the husband can turn on his wife that way, then that's even better and what I'm seriously hoping for! Good times await.

Isn't this so silly, but probably wouldn't be for a woman but to the guys, yeah it is. The woman just needs to feel like she's heard sometimes. She's feeling shy and stressed out or stupid or etc. She is letting them out to the husband she has entrusted with her whole life. The husband is like "Oh, okay. Let's solve it." Yeah, don't say that. She needs to be ready before she can accept help, but should be easy to get to with the man she loves and has married.